Monday, March 14, 2011

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Ancora nel limbo

Torno ancora sull'argomento che mi ha spinto ad aprire questo blog, il mio loop così lo definirei.
Nel week end  in più momenti ho visto la proiezione di un ipotetico futuro.
Tra venerdì e domenica la Ciopola ha avuto modo di avere contatti con dei lattanti figli di amici, quanto entusiasmo, quanti baci e carezze, quanta voglia di stringerli di fare loro delle coccole (è pur vero che avere tutti i santi giorni un piccolo in casa potrebbe ridurre, se non annullare, tanto entusiasmo, però la sua sensibilità è commovente!).
Ieri mattina la Ciopola ha preteso di fare la doccia con the Babb and he willingly accepted. The little one was excited by the news, but also a bit more cooperative than usual with some flicker of obedience to the instructions on how to keep your head eviatare the soap over his eyes. The father is provided with an activity (bathe) that normally avoids like the plague.
Continuing yesterday afternoon at the home of friends, I hold in my arm with a small disonvoltura 5mesenne and help the Ciopola down the stairs .... Maybe I should undress
of my doubts, I could make it, some positive signs recently, the Babb is giving him, it seems more cooperative ... but will it last? or at the first set I "abandon" once again to take refuge in his comfortable world?
Today is published on genitoricrescono , a post that has deeply touched my strings.
I was particularly struck two steps:
.... The truth is that the balance between the projects of two people is rare and unstable is related to contingent events in this project as it evolves, since everyone can react differently to make life .....
And so, too often, it still happens that children are the mothers, when in fact the whole social organization does not allow that anymore.
E ancora
....Ma quanti papà si defilano perchè si sentono esclusi, perchè non sono stati educati ad accudire, perchè non trovano un loro ruolo, perchè vengono troppo spesso criticati o ripresi? E quanti, che vorrebbero essere presenti, sono costretti a vedere i figli poche ore perchè il congedo per il papà è una chimera?
Un progetto familiare è fatto, prima di tutto, di tempi: il tempo in cui si decide di vivere insieme, il tempo in cui si immagina di avere dei figli, il tempo in cui li si aspetta. Poi con l’arrivo dei figli, l’elemento della vita che cambia maggiormente è lo scorrere del tempo e la sua scansione. E quando i tempi cambiano radicalmente, da un giorno all’altro, tutto può sembrare difficile. Anche una coppia che sembrava perfettamente all’unisono sui tempi della vita, può vivere momenti di crisi.....
Insomma sono sempre qui nel mio limbo di indecisione a chiedermi se mia figlia beneficierebbe davvero della presenza di un fratello/sorella o rischio di crescere una figlia unica prepotente e viziata.
E' la fiducia in me stessa che mi manca o è venuta meno la fiducia in mio marito?
I suoi recenti piccoli segni di collaborazione, potranno tradursi in un affiancamento e supporto concreto e continuo (soprattutto) in caso di un secondo figlio?
Potrei, con il mio comportamento, aver incosciamente escluso il Babbone? vedendolo incerto and little inclined to take care of Ciopola? I pushed myself or his behavior is a legacy of his upbringing?
Will I ever find an answer to my inquitudini?

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

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A volte succede ciò che non ti aspetti



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Yesterday was really a beautiful day, for many pleasant reasons.
Yesterday afternoon, the Babb and I took leave and we left the office at lunchtime. This allowed us to devote the afternoon to celebrate our Dale and with her Mardi Gras .
the nest the first pleasant surprise. I got to chat with one of the teachers, who expressed an opinion on Ciopola entirely positive, according to what he said is literally "exploded" in recent years, active, collaborative, but also a lot of fun with his talk ... " Ciopole have to like that." course this filled me with pride. So there is not only capricious and Ciopola scoundrel who are accustomed to having at home? Hence the knowledge that you catch a few 'of us, knowing that there are asylum rules definite e inviolabili per tutti, mentre a casa toccando i tasti giusti riesce anche a trasgredire e ad ottenere ciò che vuole più facilmente. Senza dubbio questo è stato uno spunto di riflessione.
Tornando al ns pomeriggio insieme, ulteriore piacevole sorpresa: era stato organizzato dall'Amministrazione Comunale un carnevale in Piazza a tema, per festeggiare l'anniversario dell'unità d'Italia. Ambientazione davvero curata, giochi di strada che si facevano a fine ottocento, personaggi in maschera che riproducevano al spedizione dei Mille, cantastorie, marionette, musica. Alla Ciopo è piaciuto tutto moltissimo, ma non ha voluto indossare il suo costumino da elefantina ed è went into crisis when a child threw the confetti that unexpectedly ended up in my mouth.
The band, cheerful and colorful
E 'followed a tense moment with Babb, who invited us to dinner (without consulting me first) two friends with their noisy and scatenatissimi babies. ( What do you want it, trust me I can do it! 'S a way to prove myself ...).
Then dinner with friends, the closest friends in a very nice Osteria I have personally chosen, environment and food taken care of, because once so we have to treat us well. Laughter, stories, rumors spread .. in short moments of pure relaxation and rejuvenating.
Back home in the Dale was still awake, but already lying in her bed, that his voice a little tenderness' sleepy as I was telling fragments of the evening ... in a few minutes luckily fell into the arms of Morpheus, squeezing hand.
The house was in disarray as I imagined, I know my chickens and I know what they are capable of lovable rogues when my trigger, instead Babb was the situation, was able to not be overwhelmed by events.
I went to bed reflecting on the fact that my presence is not always indispensabile, come i due furbetti di casa mi inducono a credere.
Senza la mamma si può ugualmente prendere il latte la sera, farsi lavare e mettere il pigiamino.
Senza Serena si può far mangiare la Ciopola, cambiarla e prepararla per la nanna....basta poco, basta la volontà nel fare le cose.
Medita Serena medita e impara.

Il volo dei palloncini



L'elefantina e l'amico Buzz
Mamma togli coriandoli!

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

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Immagine tratta liberamente dal web
Oggi è la festa della donna, una ricorrenza mai banale a mio avviso, una giornata che non può e non deve solo esaurirsi in un evento consumistico. Oggi è un giorno in cui vale la pena ricordare che abbiamo dei diritti and not only duties as women. To remember that the road to the affirmation of our. value of people has been hard and tricky. There are only women who trample on their dignity for money. There are many women who study, work (precariaramente in many cases), firmly believing in their abilities. There is also, unfortunately, a macho society, and too old to understand the added value of women.
To celebrate International Women's Day I would like to donate a grain of mimosa to each of the women who fill my life with friends away from the eyes but not from the heart, the friends who share my daily blogger, to friends that while respecting my privacy proverbial close to me know when you need it, multitasking mothers, my mother is generous, and never to my Ciopola for the woman who will be!
Gathering once again the invitation of the mammadesign list 10 reasons why it is worth being a woman:
- maternity;
- solidarity and complicity between women
- the ability to love unconditionally ;
- the desire to wear heels but also the dancers;
- the ability to think and make a cent
- readiness to solve problems;
- the successful to be happy at all;
- the sensitivity;
- the story without shame;
- dress, make-up just like the most.

Monday, March 7, 2011

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10 cose irrinunciabili

I pick the invitation of mammadesign , the result of positive triggered a chain, I think unconsciously, by Roberto Saviano, which is depopulated in various blogs and here I am with my list of 10 things that is worth living :
- the Ciopola that shakes my hand to fall asleep;
- the embrace of Babb after making love;
- the chatter and laughter with friends;
- the summer morning with the swallows;
- crying, laughing and excited reading a book;
- sing out loud alone in a car
- dance, dance, dance,
- the mother's lasagna;
- the beauty of a sunset;
- travel and discover, enjoy and places new habits. Step

chain to anyone who turns a tell and tell!

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A carnevale ogni scherzo vale


The elephant Dale
For the law of retaliation on weekends you sleep little. Ciopola The small, in fact , yesterday morning at 7.40 was already awake to claim the presence of her mother.
Despite initial indifference to his repeated calls to a certain point I go and sit next to her bed, I keep my hand as usual, hoping it goes back to sleep quickly and let me return to sleep so abruptly interrupted.
But I feel it, whispering incomprehensible sentences already seems nice little skate at some point I realized that my hand is not shaking his most ... I do not have time to talk, which she anticipates saying
- Mamma shenti ice a pede?
- But Dale, you've removed the sock and made me a joke ?
- Shii ...
- Mama, I go down ?!
- not want to sleep a little ... compassionate and plaintive insist Please Dale, mother sleep!
- NO, I go ... leaned dangerously from the couch ...
- OK, OK But before you get off giving up their socks, where? Seeking
frantically and unproductively knit, short-sighted without my glasses and eyes still clouded with sleep. At one point, looking sly says:
- 's mom! indicating the edge of the bed on which the shield has suddenly materialized ...
- Ahhhh, but then you had hidden yourself? Bad rogue
- Shi ... are giocona

Thursday, March 3, 2011

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Premio per me

Until some time ago I was rather suspicious about this kind of initiatives, from my infuenzata confidential and reserved, then on the sympathy of friends Bloggers I slowly changed my mind and I'm here to tell you that I have received an award :
I was really happily surprised and honored. I am therefore grateful to the heart of Michael Bastaunpocodizucchero (fantastic decorator of sweetness, her creations are true works of art!).

The award is open to blog "young people" who do some 'advertising, the "rules" that will share the prize with other friend Blogger:
- to accept the prize by writing a post;
- pass the award to other blogs of your choice (can be given three to five blogs);
- link to the post who sent it to you.

I decided to reward some blogs I discovered recently:

http://mammachecasa.blogspot.com/p/chi-sono.html known soooo much lately, I loved it and I was impressed the depth of his comment to my post.
http://mammapig.blogspot.com/ ; know her recently, but feel close.
http://pessimemamme.blogspot.com/2011/03/pessime-mamme-crescono.html , the prize is a wish for this baby blog that promises to become a really successful blog!

Good day to all!

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

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Una breve riflessione sul PROGETTO FAMIGLIA

I recently met a blog that I immediately loved it, for content is and how to treat them. I'm talking about genitoricrescono . A blog that I would call "instructive."
I take inspiration from the theme of the month project to tell family my personal experience with this (actually commenting on something I wrote the post in question).
One of the authors writes: Two hearts, a hut, a baby, and here the Family Project has taken shape. Well, almost. But what is the difference between a project and rickety one that works? The ingredients are many: a mom, a dad, a baby, maybe one or two works to be taken, a house to manage, the sleepless nights to be resolved, the aid that would serve the annoying interference, the delicate balances, the hormones in circle, misunderstandings ....... The project family is in my opinion a wonderful project, a project in which I strongly believe and in cui mi sento tuttora impegnata, ma senza dubbio ci sono tante variabili che possono condizionarlo fino a renderlo difficile da vivere con serenità.
Io non ho ancora trovato un vero equilibrio e quindi non posso dare grandi suggerimenti sugli elementi che possono renderlo un progetto di successo. Ci sono tanti aspetti di cui è difficile tener conto a priori, quando il progetto è solo un desiderio, tra cui le reazioni dei nonni o il ruolo del padre. Si spera di avere dei nonni collaborativi ma discreti, un padre attento e presente e invece ti trovi con gli ormoni a mille e un gran senso di solitudine.
A due anni dall’avvio del progetto di cui si parla, credo di aver trovato per esempio un mio modo to limit interference from too much love of their grandparents. In my case the grandparents' desire to be helpful, causes them to become a cumbersome presence and thus frustrate the strength of their help. By the time I learned to talk to them more directly, I recognize that sometimes they are too direct, this does not completely remove some moments of silent incomprehension or certain exercises of patience required to not blurt out instantly, but I personally found sincert in a therapeutic method to manage the relationship.
the rest must also be said that the grandparents have understood that their role is not to educate, so there are parents. Their luggage experience, but knowledge can be used to accompany a happy growing child. Unfortunately
an issue still unresolved is the parenting part of the couple. Sometimes I seem to be the only one to take the project forward. At times I think there is the necessary interchangeability.
The feeling I have sometimes is that I stuck in a lobster pot inextricable.
The dialogue can be a winning? probably yes, if combined with the desire to pursue the project. 20 Hours

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

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NO, IL PAPI NO!

family Serena (manontroppo) gathered at the table for dinner.
TV on (I know non si dovrebbe, però così è)...
Il maritone ed io parliamo a sprazzi commentando i fatti del giorno, sempre seguendo la Ciopola che mangia, cercando di arginare la sua esuberanza, evitare che rovesci l'acqua o che improvvisamente annoiata si precipiti dalla sedia...
Ad un certo punto esclama sorridente:
- Bellucconi ...
- Che hai detto Ciopo?..
rivolta al Maritone bisbiglio sgomenta:
-  ma ha detto davvero Berlusconi ?
- Bellucconi mamma
- C 'è Bellucconi mamma
Abbiamo finto indifferenza e spento la tv...ma dico io tra tutte le parole he could just pick up that had to stay ahead.
ARGHHHHHHHH !!!!!!!!!